There are a lot of benefits of seeing a sex therapist.
Here are a few:
I invite you to come visit us at Shades Oasis where there are many opportunities to explore methods to whole-body wellness and intimacy education steeped in pleasure.
Many practitioners bring in their talents of tantra, massage, yoga, yoni steams, mediation just to name a few.
Lot's to explore at Oasis!
It’s time to stop feeling confused, anxious, and hopeless, about how your body and mind responds to pleasure.
I specialize in short term, action- and results-oriented consultation. I work with clients in person, phone, or video. We’ll work together to identify what’s getting in the way of you having the intimate life of your dreams, and kickstart your love life with proven strategies.
I’m here to help you stop feeling embarrassed and ashamed and start having way more fun in the bedroom.
If you struggle to achieve orgasm on your own or with a partner, you’re all too familiar with the anxiety-ridden thoughts that come along with the perceived failure to “get there.” You’ve waged long battles with these thoughts in your head. Sure, you want to release, because you want to feel good. But it’s become so much more than that at this point.
If you are embarrassed to even talk to your best friend about it. That is where I step in. Let's answer the question - are you even having an orgasm?We will create a more confident you. A you who has complete control over your pleasure and your ability to discuss it with your partner(s).
What to Expect
Painting experience. Get ready for a truly adult paint night. Instead of painting your typical high heel or wine glass, you'll be painting a figure model! Our models are hand-picked professionals who will be posing as you channel your inner artist. Great for a night out, adventurous date, or just a spicy way to start your weekend!
• All attendees must be 21+ with valid ID.
• Includes canvas and painting supplies and 2 glasses of wine.
• LIMITED SEATING! No tickets will be sold at the door
• Tickets are final sale. Refunds will be given if event is cancelled
Guests are guided through a painting expression. Each of our guests leave the event with their masterpiece of the human form to hang on their wall at home. The monthly event will have a different model and it is always instructor led.
What to Expect
During a Yoni Steam Ceremony, you'll find yourself in a serene and sacred space, where herbal steam gently envelops your body, fostering balance, vitality, and connection.
Key highlights of a Yoni Steam Ceremony:
Discover the profound benefits of a Yoni Steam Ceremony and embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment. Reconnect with your body, embrace your feminine energy, and experience the transformative power of this ancient ritual.
This monthly event is a cocktail and convo event. 2nd Saturdays monthly, we choose a topic and then a brief Q&A on ways to improve your physical intimate relationships through knowledge about how the body responds to stimuli.
A workshop within a party! Varies topics are delivered, guest explore the facilities equipment and furniture engaging with individuals in a safe, inclusive space steeped in pleasure.
Ever want to party in a space conducive to your "kink"? From puppy play to sloshing, we celebrate through pleasure in a healthy environment. Demonstrations by seasoned practitioners are given within the cost of your ticket.
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Hands on activities in 45 minute - 2 hour sessions. Rate range from $150 - $3,500. Based on # of participants and location.
We are going to go through a boot camp about the female ejaculation. How it differs from genital/clitoral orgasms, how to release ejaculate, what positions aid the orgasm success. As well, you are going to know where the G-spot is located and how to feel a variety of orgasms and sensations of pleasure that will aid your overall well being.
Whatever your level of comfort and knowledge with gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender issues, this workshop will give you a chance to learn about LGBTQIA lives and experiences, get answers to your questions, and take away practical tips for working and interacting with LGBTQIA individuals. With the goal of increasing awareness, comfort, and sensitivity to LGBTQIA issues.
All are welcome to join the conversation about living as an LGBTQIA individual in an era where all four generations are in the workforce and dating pool. Let’s talk about status honesty, dating, and sex positions for the best orgasm regardless of who’s on top!
Have you (and your partner) ever wondered about the term “lesbian bed death”? Does this seem like the inevitable course for your relationship? Is your relationship wavering on the brink of disaster and a big part of this is because neither, or only one, of you has the desire to be sexually intimate? Are you feeling low sexual self-esteem? Learn tips on avoiding bed death and maintaining intimacy.
The first thing to know about the art of dominating a submissive is that it is about the receiver, not the giver. This means that it is up to you to provide a PLEASURABLE experience through exotic touch, whispered words, the art of surprise and lastly, painful or intense pleasure to climax (if allowed).
This workshop is for individuals who are searching for freedom from compulsive sexual behavior. This workshop helps participants get below the surface of their behaviors and arrive at an understanding of their basic needs and hurts that drive them. Participants will find the format to be flexible and allows for individual time to process assignments. 1 week to began the work to live healthy.
Did you know that certain tension and stress can hinder or minimize your sexual pleasure? Many of us don’t link our dissatisfaction in bed with what’s happening in your life daily. Learn how to release tension and relax into stronger more rewarding sexual experiences.
Have you gotten that feeling of denial when you found out that those guys were not talking about you, but rather your sexy friend? Everyone been through it before. Those days are long over if you're ready to revamp your style and turn everyone's head. A work on confidence building.
Before you can get your groove on, do what you must do to prepare your body. Covers 10 known hot spots of the V. How to relax, come out of your head space and enjoy an orgasm as well as, what sexual positions, toys, lubes etc., could lead every womyn to their best sex.
Clueless when it comes to turning someone on? Your not alone. A discussion of 60 turn-ons, a few turnoffs and confidence building to be alluring.
A presentation and conversation on where the G-spot is located, how best to stimulate the area and what happens during a G-spot orgasm.
You read that right! This workshops covers the pleasures of pegging. Men and women learn about tools, lubes and toys that make pegging safe, pleasurable and rewarding.
You find it tantalizing, others find it odd. A detailed workshop addressing and debunking sexual taboos. Taboos are labels defined by the observer. Learn methods used on either side of the observation and find common ground of acceptance for all.
With the ability to have different types of orgasms and a variety of feelings and levels of intensity associated with them, womyn are “built” with the capacity to reach orgasms of different types. Learn 10 of them and then have fun practicing.
Orgasm is the best way to start the day hands down. A great start to the day can make the rest of the day fly by so much better. When you add an orgasm into your morning routine, you’ll get to enjoy a ton of physical and emotional benefits that last the entire day. Learn quickie positions and benefits.
Detailed workshop on how to explore bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism as a dominate or as a submissive. Participants will be able to develop a creative mindfuckery play and tips to set goals and limits for their own pleasure. Head-space is where it's at. But you don't have to be a hypnotist, psychologist or shaman to get there.
There is a direct link to sexual abuse and consensual sex acts of individuals with a disability. This workshop is not about discussing such abuse. What it will cover is the alternatives and options for sexual pleasure between consenting adults regardless of mental or physical disability.
When that feeling of sexual routine begins to set in, many forward-thinking couples nowadays consider swinging as a solution. Swinging is usually not just a one-time thing. Most couples who consider themselves swingers treat it as a lifestyle. Learn the challenges and rewards of this lifestyle and define your boundaries of participating so that you can began to explore.
This is a hands on experience. Substances of water, oil, and wax will be used on the exposed skin of participants. We will use objects which may include cutlery, ball chains, necklaces and many others objects. We will use blindfolds and bondage to amplify the experience as a bonus add-on.
What, why and how do strap-on harnesses work. Harnesses and dildos are made in a wide variety of styles, with variations in how the harness fits the wearer, how the dildo attaches to the harness, as well as various features intended to facilitate stimulation of the wearer or a sexual partner. Exploring the wide variety of sexual activities and lubrication that can be used to ease insertion, this workshop is designated 21+ only.
A thought-provoking, interactive workshop about identity labels . As new generations come out, increasing numbers are rejecting “traditional” sexual orientation identity labels like gay and straight, instead describing themselves with words like queer, pansexual, heteroflexible, “just sexual,” or choosing not to use a label at all. In this workshop, participants will explore the usefulness and limits of identity labels.
All Workshops can be delivered via lecture and includes PowerPoints, or video images.
By "Private" I mean you choose your audience! I can come in and do any of my sessions with your private group.
Rates are subject to change at any time. We reserve the right to deny entry at our discretion.
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Debra Shade travels the country delivering as a keynote and expert on completing the sexual response cycle.
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